Sam and Marie: An Enduring Love Affair

Considering the heavy demands of Steele’s career, it is perhaps surprising that he found time for romancelove 1. Yet when Marie Elizabeth de Lotbinière Harwood (1859–1951) came to NWMP headquarters at Fort Macleod to visit her aunt, she captivated Steele and they fell deeply in love. Steele’s command at Fort Macleod afforded him little leisure, but, during a romantic courtship over the summer of 1889, they discovered many shared interests, including their affection for horses.

When he proposed to Marie, she readily accepted; to please love 3her family they were wed in Quebec on 15 January 1890. Her francophone, Roman Catholic background was in stark contrast to Steele’s upbringing in an Anglican family on a rural Ontario homestead. Marie was the eldest daughter of Robert William Harwood (1826–1897), a seigneur of the county and Member of Parliament from Vaudreuil. Thus Steele gained both a wife and an influential love 3political connection. After their wedding, the couple travelled to New York and toured the United States, where his celebrity elicited warm hospitality. In his autobiography Steele recalled that the New York Fire Department greeted them with a parade of 60 engines; numerous police departments also received them with enthusiasm.

Sam and Marie exchanged hundreds of affectionate letters throughout their 29-year marriage. A significant portion of the Steele archive, their correspondence touches on both personal affairs and historical events, and reveals a fascinating, if largely unexplored, area of Steele’s life.

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    2008.1.1.1.1.1 Letter to Sam Steele, 11 Dec. 1888
    Sir Samuel Steele Fonds > Series 1 Personal Papers > 1.1 Correspondence > 1.1.1 Letters from Marie
    Author: Harwood, Robert William; Steele, Marie (de Lotbinière Harwood), 1859-1951
    Recipient: Steele, Samuel B. (Samuel Benfield), 1848-1919
    Date: 11 Dec. 1888
    Images: 7
    Description: Includes an enclosed letter from Marie Harwood's father, Robert Harwood, accepting Sam Steele's request to marry his daughter.
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    2008.1.1.1.2.25 General Correspondence - Robert Harwood - 1888
    Sir Samuel Steele Fonds > Series 1 Personal Papers > 1.1 Correspondence > 1.1.2 General - Notebooks, Address Books, Letter Registers and Correspondence
    Author: Harwood, Robert William; Steele, Samuel B. (Samuel Benfield), 1848-1919
    Recipient: Harwood, Robert William; Steele, Samuel B. (Samuel Benfield), 1848-1919
    Date: 03 Dec. 1888
    Images: 6
    Description: Letter written by Sam Steele to his future father-in-law, asking for Marie Harwood’s hand in marriage. Handwritten.
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    2008.1.1.1.2.27 General Correspondence - 1889
    Sir Samuel Steele Fonds > Series 1 Personal Papers > 1.1 Correspondence > 1.1.2 General - Notebooks, Address Books, Letter Registers and Correspondence
    Author: Steele, Samuel B. (Samuel Benfield), 1848-1919
    Recipient: Steele, Samuel B. (Samuel Benfield), 1848-1919
    Date: 01 Feb. 1889
    Images: 4
    Description: Letter to SBS from Eliza Macgillis, maternal grandmother of Marie Harwood. Handwritten.
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    2008.1.1.1.2.32 General Correspondence - 1890
    Sir Samuel Steele Fonds > Series 1 Personal Papers > 1.1 Correspondence > 1.1.2 General - Notebooks, Address Books, Letter Registers and Correspondence
    Author: Steele, Samuel B. (Samuel Benfield), 1848-1919
    Recipient: Steele, Samuel B. (Samuel Benfield), 1848-1919
    Date: 07 Aug. 1890
    Images: 2
    Description: Envelope with a return address for the Fire Department, City of New York, Bureau of Combustibles. Handwritten.
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    2008.1.1.2.3 Pocket Diary, Personal - 1888
    Sir Samuel Steele Fonds > Series 1 Personal Papers > 1.2 Diaries, Personal
    Author: Steele, Samuel B. (Samuel Benfield), 1848-1919
    Date: 1 Jan. 1888 - 11 Dec. 1888
    Images: 414
    Description: Black leather-bound; hand-written entries Cash accounts kept at back of diary
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    2008.1.1.5.1.1 Superintendent Samuel Steele and Marie Steele in Fort Macleod
    Sir Samuel Steele Fonds > Series 1 Personal Papers > 1.5 Photographs > 1.5.1 Family portraits
    Author: Steele & Co..
    Date: 1895
    Images: 2
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    2008.1.1.5.1.2 Colonel Samuel B. Steele and Marie Steele portrait taken in Pretoria, South Africa
    Sir Samuel Steele Fonds > Series 1 Personal Papers > 1.5 Photographs > 1.5.1 Family portraits
    Author: Munro Photorapher, Pretoria.
    Date: [1906]
    Images: 2
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    2008.1.1.5.1.4 Colonel Samuel B. Steele and Marie Steele portrait taken in Pretoria, South Africa
    Sir Samuel Steele Fonds > Series 1 Personal Papers > 1.5 Photographs > 1.5.1 Family portraits
    Author: Munro Photorapher, Pretoria.
    Date: [1906]
    Images: 4
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    2008.1.1.5.1.5 Portrait of Marie Steele with her three children
    Sir Samuel Steele Fonds > Series 1 Personal Papers > 1.5 Photographs > 1.5.1 Family portraits
    Author: Wm. Notman & Son Photographers. Montreal.
    Date: Jul. 1901
    Images: 2
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    2008.1.1.5.1.6 Family photographs, ca. 1916
    Sir Samuel Steele Fonds > Series 1 Personal Papers > 1.5 Photographs > 1.5.1 Family portraits
    Date: [1916]
    Images: 2
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    2008.2.1.1.1.172 Letter to Marie Steele, 03 Apr. 1898
    Marie Harwood Steele Fonds > Series 1 Personal Papers > 1.1 Correspondence > 1.1.1 Letters from Sam
    Author: Steele, Marie (de Lotbinière Harwood), 1859-1951; Steele, Samuel B. (Samuel Benfield), 1848-1919
    Recipient: Steele, Marie (de Lotbinière Harwood), 1859-1951
    Date: 03 Apr. 1898
    Images: 14
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    2008.2.1.1.1.277 Letter to Marie Steele, 30 Apr. 1899
    Marie Harwood Steele Fonds > Series 1 Personal Papers > 1.1 Correspondence > 1.1.1 Letters from Sam
    Author: Steele, Marie (de Lotbinière Harwood), 1859-1951; Steele, Samuel B. (Samuel Benfield), 1848-1919
    Recipient: Steele, Marie (de Lotbinière Harwood), 1859-1951
    Date: Apr 30 1899
    Images: 7
    Description: SBS describes Dawson fire on evening of April 26th, 1899